Workshops & Retreats

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Free Leaving the Shore Workshop

LIVE on Zoom with Colette Lafia
Tuesday, January 27, 2026, 4-5 PM Pacific, 7-8 PM Eastern
Offered by Mercy Spirituality Center - Click here to register.

Welcome the new year with poetry and prayer.

During our time together, spiritual director Colette Lafia will explore how praying with poetry allows us to:

Recognize the sacred in the small details of our everyday lives
Create a holy spaciousness around our experiences, instead of rushing past them.
Slow down so there’s more room for God’s presence in what we notice and how we respond.

There will be short readings from Leaving the Shore, a simple lectio-style way of praying with a poem, spiritual journal writing, and quiet pauses for listening, along with time for Q & A. We’ll connect with our lives as a creative expression of the Divine.

THANK YOU IN ADVANCE FOR ORDERING A COPY OF LEAVING THE SHORE !

Experience contemplative spirituality, creative expression, and heart-felt community with Colette through Retreats, Workshops, and Presentations—both online and in person.

Topics include: the path of love, spiritual journal writing, sacred poetry, contemplative practices, the Christian mystics, gratitude, sacred art making, and living the Divine Heart.

Programs include:

  • Contemplative practices such as lectio Divina (sacred reading), Visio Divina (sacred seeing), Audio Divina (sacred listening) and the prayer of quiet.
  • Teachings and deep reflections.
  • Journaling, spiritual poetry writing, and sacred art making.
  • Sharing and listening in a loving community.

**If you’re interested in having Colette work with your community and offer a retreat, workshop, or talk, either in-person or online, please contact her. Please note that Colette is offering free presentations for her new book, Leaving the Shore. Find out more here.

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"Words cannot express my gratitude for your presence, investment and effort put towards the retreat this past weekend. Your skill in helping me personally took my expectations to a level never imagined. Didn’t want to wait another day to let you know the magnitude of growth, opening and help you have given and empowered me with. It is a life changer! "

D.B.

Divine Heart In-person Retreat, 2024
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"Colette created a beautiful retreat gathering and inspired a circle of trust. Through her gentle guidance and expert leadership, our group opened up like a garden of flowers that brought deeper understanding about our own spiritual paths. I am so grateful for the spiritual growth I experienced in Colette's retreat."

Veronica

Vancouver
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"I am grateful for the grace of growing closer to the Beloved as I have experienced how deep, high, long & wide is this divine love. It is expansive, limitless, and eternal love! The Beloved is delighted to place His/Her hands on my heart, to fill me with compassion, to heal my hurts and sorrows, and to share this love between us. Being filled, I am amazed how much divine love flows out! Thanks and Blessings of love to you, Colette, and to all who have shared this retreat."

Laurel

California
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"One of the graces I received during this retreat is that of keeping my focus on Divine Love. Receiving this Divine Love deep into my bones, and knowing that in first receiving it as the reality that it is actually more real than anything else, I can then reflect it more easily to all I encounter! Thank you so much Colette for enhancing and expanding my experience of Divine Love through this retreat."

Paula

Minneapolis
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“Thank you Colette and others for sharing this retreat. I found it a wonderful touchstone through a busy time. It was delivered in such an accessible, sweet way. Having participated in the Living School myself, I found that your summaries and integration of the material was profound for me. Thank you. I was challenged to really create enough space to go as deeply as this deserved. A life-long challenge. I could have spent a day on each session. Please keep sharing your gift Colette.”

Victoria

Canada
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"This has been a beautiful, personalized, compassionate and meaningful retreat for me! I was able to slow down and get in touch with Christ who is in me! Colette your topics and the pace you set for us led us deeper into ourselves! I thank you! I intend to keep re-reading all of this over and over in order to hopefully keep me in this wonderful, peaceful place!"

Annie

San Francisco
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"I found myself opening again to both receive and give with open arms, knowing that in whom I live and move and have my being. I have regained the habit of prayerful living which allows the Divine. Thank you Colette. This is just what I needed in my life at this time."

Judith

Berkeley
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"Thank you Colette for allowing me to join your Retreat. It has blessed my soul. I found the demonstration on Centering prayer so very helpful & will keep using it. I so enjoyed Thomas Keating's interview, finding him very real. The simplicity of his life and faith was an inspiration. I have ended your Retreat with the words of that lovely Hymn on my heart, ' Love Divine all Loves excelling' It is the prayer I close this Retreat with. Thank you."

Audrey

England
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"Thank you, Colette. I now have more clarity on the difficulty of my transition. I have left this workshop with two symbols to contemplate. Great workshop. Thank you for your facilitation over the the group. You are simply wonderful."

Lisa

Anaheim
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"Wonderful retreat. Colette is great. I really like the gentle and easy way she led us. Love the art project. Love not having an agenda and her suggestion at the beginning to just relax and go with it. I like that this retreat led us somewhere—had content and worked toward deeper insights and meaning. Really liked Colette’s style of facilitation. Please offer it again! I’d love to bring friends."

Krista

California

Reviews from Past Online Retreat Participants:

"Colette and Michelle both did an amazing job creating community, sisterhood and a space for grace and healing. Never been to a retreat with so much laughing and crying and caring for each other with lots of hugs. It was my first experience of a women’s only retreat. What a difference! I loved the contemplative dimension." Participant in San Damiano Women's Retreat, Spring 2024

"I had a wonderful dance with this faith community and a big thank you, Colette, for making this online retreat such a success.  Your reflections, prayers, deep questions and visio divina were all so rich that I am sure this retreat will continue on its own course for a long time to come.  THANK YOU!" — Participant in “Being Love, Becoming Whole.”

Colette created a beautiful retreat gathering, and inspired a circle of trust. Through her gentle guidance, and expert leadership, our group opened up like a garden of flowers that brought deeper understanding about our own spiritual paths. I am so grateful for the spiritual growth I experienced in Colette's retreat. - Veronica in Vancouver, participant in online seven month Divine Heart Program


Today I attended the last gathering of “Living the Divine Heart”, an online monthly program with Colette Lafia, Spiritual Director, Retreat Leader and author of The Divine Heart, Seven Ways to Live God's Love. Each of our monthly gatherings was based on the “Seven invitations for living a life overflowing with Divine Love”: Receptivity, Delight, Expensiveness, Acceptance, Vulnerability, Mystery and Gratitude.

As Colette had promised we engaged in “spiritual journal writing, guided meditations, praying with images, and contemplative sharing.” It was a beautiful and enriching experience of spiritual and personal growth in a supportive and caring environment. - Marisa, San Antonio Texas, Divine Heart Program


"Colette created a safe and welcoming space to connect with myself and the Devine. It was wonderful to meet with other people on the spiritual journey and I left each meeting feeling nourished and encouraged. I appreciated Colette's wealth of knowledge and experience and the practices she sent out throughout the month gave me lots to contemplate and new ways to engage spiritually." - Vickie, London
Days of Prayer, in-person


I appreciated the opportunity to be prayerfully guided around a topic that is spiritual and then being able to create are around it. - Sue, participant in Fruits of the Spirit, Day of Prayer, in-person


Colette is a very gentle, very positive leader, who creates a safe space. It was a blessing to share with others.

I am amazed that a day retreat, just six hours, can be so filling. Colette is great at leading, with her encouraging words and meditations. I felt the Spirit moved today. I have so much joy and peace in my heart. - Participant, Advent Day of Prayer


The combination of journaling, meditation and art being woven together was very powerful. Thank you! - Participant, Day of Prayer


I came to find a place of comfort and I received everything I needed. It was a gentle, loving and caring environment, with a wonderful facilitator and circle of women.

I loved the variety of activities--talking, listening, silence. The facilitator’s preparedness is awesome! Thank you!

What I read from spiritual books, I heard from the voice of Colette, which is alive and more real than reading.

Thank you, Colette, for sharing your wisdom and creating this sacred space for us. There was a nice balance of presentation, sharing, and writing. - A.S., Sacred Unfolding Writing Retreat


I am pleasantly surprised that these past few days have exceeded all the expectations I had hope for. Colette Lafia and Debie Thomas were wonderful and gifted in their teaching and sharing. Thank you. - G.C. Participant Sacred Unfolding Writing Retreat


I appreciated the intentional structure of the retreat and how it incorporated time for solo writing, time to share, time to do lectio divina, audio divina, and visio divina. I loved the concrete writing prompts and also the contrast between “how to,” and “lists” along with spaces for creativity and out of the box. I also felt you created a very comfortable community space that led to people feeling at ease with each other. - M.P., participant in Sacred Unfolding Writing Retreat

I felt very safe and held. I felt able to express myself in my vulnerability. I appreciate your openness and sharing from your own experience and sharing your vulnerabilities. - J.S. Participant in-person retreat


Both Colette and Debie were excellent. Thank you, for caring so deeply about the experience of the participants and for creating a beautiful setting. I liked the concept that his was not a writing workshop, but a spiritual retreat, and that the Divine is in us and around us. Very welcoming of all faith traditions. Thank you for combining the theory and practice, and for your depth and kindness. - S.T., in person retreat.


Words cannot express my gratitude for your presence, investment and effort put towards the retreat this past weekend. Your skill in helping me personally took my expectations to a level never imagined. The retreat was a life changer! I came home with graces only God could have directed, and I’m convinced only you could have unearthed with Holy Spirit leading. - D.B., in person Divine Heart Retreat


I loved this workshop. Colette does such a wonderful job facilitating and has such a sweet spirit. Love the art and the prayer. I never miss Colette’s retreat. - B.H. in person Day of Prayer, Seeking Surrender


Loved the retreat. Your style in teaching and sharing are right n the flow of the moment. I enjoyed the day, learned a lot, and I felt connected to everybody. - A.K, Transitions Retreat


Comforting and soothing. Colette was so healing to be with. She was very sensitive to the audience and paced the day perfectly.
M. L., participant in Day of Prayer on Comfort

I enjoyed Colette’s workshop using art and movement to help tune into the spiritual aspect of life. I gained insight into ways to unblock patterns that have been keeping me stuck. I hope Colette offers more workshops!
E.V.

I really enjoyed Colette’s retreat. I liked the way brought in elements from James Finley, Richard Rohr, and Thich Nhat Hanh. The exercise and sharing opened up and brought up meaningful insights. I appreciated the meditations, embodiment exercise and the visual art practice. I’d love to attend another retreat with her. - C. G. participant in retreat, Prayer and Creativity


Colette Lafia is gifted in gathering us to play, pray, and to ponder new possibilities. I appreciate her creativity, sensitivity to the Spirit, intuition, honesty and depth. - L.B., Prayer and Creativity


This retreat was such a welcome break--a pause to reflect on both what I am grateful for and what opportunities for gratitude are growing in the darker areas of difficulty. Nice pace, beautiful presentations, unexpected surprises. - J.N. in person Gratitude retreat.


I am feeling refresh by the time of silence and reflection, looking into moments of ingratitude brought awareness and a sense of relief that it’s okay to feel that way. Loved the prayer and meditation. Thank you. - P.D. in-person Gratitude retreat

"I have loved being a part of your retreat! I think I have found what I have been searching for! I know that my ’spirituality’ had changed some time ago, and not knowing which ‘road’ to take, I was unable to move forward. Now, during this retreat I have discovered all that I couldn’t find when I was searching on my own."

J.G., participant in “Being Love, Becoming Whole.”

"From this retreat experience, I came to realize that I can take God anywhere, anytime and anyplace. I was reminded that God is always a breath away. Thank you, Colette for presenting a beauty-filled and beautiful retreat."

N.J., participant in “Being Love, Becoming Whole.”

"Thank you Colette for your leadership with this retreat during these days with numerous challenges. I appreciated it so much."

H.D., participant in “Being Love, Becoming Whole.”

"This has been an incredible, awesome retreat. Your presentations have included a gentle, feminine touch. Shalom, my friend."

M.M., San Jose, participant in “Being Love, Becoming Whole.”

Past Workshops, Events and Presentations

March 14, 2021
The Divine Heart: Living in God's Love
St. Ignatius Parish, San Francisco


February 22 - March 7, 2021
Surrendering to Love Online Retreat
San Damiano Retreat Center, Danville, CA


February 12 - 26, 2021
Becoming the Loving Presence of God Online Retreat
Mercy Center Burlingame


December 11, 2020
Advent Morning of Prayer
Mercy Center Burlingame


December 6, 2019
Advent Day of Prayer
Sponsored by Mercy Center


June 17 – June 27, 2019
Being Loved, Becoming Whole Online Retreat
Sponsored by Mercy Center


Good Friday: Broken and Whole Presentation 2019
Saint Ignatius Church San Francisco, CA


Tuesdays Jan. 8, Feb. 5, Mar. 5, 2019
3 Sessions: Exploring Prayer: The Key to Spiritual Growth


Friday, December 7, 2018
Saying “Yes” to the Invitation of Love: Advent Day of Prayer
Mercy Center Burlingame, California


Sunday, November 18, 2018
Way Opening, Way Closing: Praying with Change
Saint Ignatius Church, San Francisco, Fromm Center


Wednesday, November 7, 2018
Day of Prayer: Saint Sabina Center
San Rafael, CA


Friday, December 8, 2017
Advent Day of Prayer: It’s All About Love
Mercy Center, Burlingame


Tuesday, December 5, 2017
The Transformative Power of Surrender
School of Applied Theology, Bay Area


Wednesday, November 8, 2017
God Calls Me by Name
St. Simon Church, Los Altos

 

Tuesdays, September 12, 19 & 26, 2017
Radical Hospitality Retreat Series
Ignatian Spiritual Life Center, San Francisco


May 12, 2017
Awakening the Gifts of the Holy Spirit During a Time of Transition
Mercy Center: Burlingame, CA


May 7, 2017
Presentation on Spiritual Direction
Saint Ignatius Church, San Francisco


May 2, 2017
The Transformative Power of Surrender
School of Applied Theology, Oakland, California


April 10, 2017
Comfort Circle: Sacred Space for Cultivating Compassion & Connection
School of Applied Theology, Oakland, California


December 9, 2016
Advent Day of Prayer
Mercy Center: Burlingame, CA


November 29, 2016
The Transformative Power of Surrender
School of Applied Theology: Oakland, CA


October 19, 26 & November 2, 2016
Living Mercy: A 3-part Retreat in Daily Life
Saint Agnes Spiritual Life Center: San Francisco, CA


October 5, 2016
Day of Prayer: Surrendering into Grace
Santa Sabina Retreat Center: San Rafael, CA


May 3, 2016
The Transformative Power of Surrender
School of Applied Theology: Oakland, CA


April 22, 2016
Women in Transition: The Art of Waiting
Mercy Center: Burlingame, CA


March 18, 2016
Deepen Your Intimacy with the Sacred through Spiritual Art
Mercy Center: Burlingame, CA

 

March 16, 2016
Comfort Circles: A Sacred Space for Cultivating Compassion & Connection
School of Applied Theology: Oakland, CA


Dec. 11, 2015
Joyful Surrender: Advent Retreat Day
Mercy Center: Burlingame, CA


Oct. 18, 2015
Journey Into the Heart of Surrender
Saint Ignatius Adult Faith Formation/Fromm Center: San Francisco, CA


Sept. 13, 20 & 27 2015
Seeking Surrender: Mini-Retreat
Saint Agnes Spiritual Life Center: San Francisco, CA


July 14, 2015
The Art of Listening in Spiritual Direction
Institute for Health & Healing, California Pacific Medical Center:
San Francisco, CA


July 13, 2015
Journey Into the Heart of Surrender
The Sequoias: San Francisco, CA


June 5-7, 2015
Love Me Into Being (Retreat)
Villa Angelica: Carmel, California


June 2, 2015
Journey Into the Heart of Surrender
Calvary Presbyterian Church: San Francisco, CA


May 24, 2015
Seeking Surrender: Book Signing
Mercy Center: Burlingame, CA


May 22, 2015
Women in Transition
Mercy Center: Burlingame, CA


May 13, 2015
Life Lessons from a Trappist Monk
Santa Sabina Center: San Rafael, CA


May 11, 2015
Journey Into the Heart of Surrender
Mindfulness Care Center: San Francisco, CA


May 7, 2015
Seeking Surrender: Book Signing
BookShop West Portal: San Francisco, CA