Interview with Carl McColman on Befriending Silence: Discovering the Gifts of Cistercian Spirituality
Interview with Carl McColman, January 2016 facilitated by Colette Lafia Carl McColman and I share a mutual appreciation and affection for the monastic life. We first connected last year when he read and reviewed my book, Seeking Surrender: How a Trappist Monk Taught me to Trust and Embrace Life. Now, I am delighted to return…
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Wednesday Wisdom. Being Present is a Dimension of Listening This month, I continue to explore the many dimensions of listening as foundational to building a more intimate relationship with the Divine. As spiritual people we are called to listen, and cultivate a listening heart. I will listen to what God the Lord says; he promises peace…
Read MoreThe Gift of Compassionate Listening
Wednesday Wisdom. Compassionate Listening. As part of my practice as a spiritual director, I engage in compassionate listening and in being a compassionate presence for others. The source of compassionate listening is the fountain of Love, and more and more I am becoming attentive to how much God is a compassionate listener, listening to me with Love. There are so…
Read MoreListening to the Sacred in Your Life
Wednesday Wisdom. On New Year’s Day, I sat in front of my fireplace on a rainy Saturday afternoon, writing in my journal. My shoulders were hunched and my mind felt like it was in a washing machine, filled with problems I was facing at work, and pressures of money. I began to cry, and as I poured…
Read MoreGratitude & Hope
Thank you, 2015! Welcome, 2016. As we conclude this Thomas Merton centennial year (1915-2015) celebration, I want to express my gratitude for being a part of this special year with the publication of my book, Seeking Surrender: How my Friendship with Trappist Monk Taught me to Trust and Embrace Life. How blessed we have all been to…
Read MoreDwelling in the Mystery
Wednesday Wisdom. We allow ourselves to dwell, to savor, and to linger in the longing.
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