Sacred Practices

Sacred Practices for Spiritual Living

Living into Surrendering: Intention

By Colette Lafia /

Surrendering into Living, Day 2 O rescue me, God, my helper, and my tongue shall ring out your goodness, O Lord, open my lips and my mouth shall declare your praise. –from Psalm 51   The monks at the Abbey of Gethsemani, where I met Brother Rene, start the morning…

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Seeking Surrender Interview

By Colette Lafia / Comments Off on Seeking Surrender Interview

I recently had the pleasure of being interviewed and featured on Kayce Hughlett’s blog.  Here is the interview: Can you please tell us what finding the Divine day-to-day looks like for you today? Colette: For me, finding the Divine day-to-day is about becoming more aware of God’s love—a great love…

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Saying Yes to Our Desires

By Colette Lafia / Comments Off on Saying Yes to Our Desires

Wednesday Wisdom  “If we are not fully ourselves, truly in the present moment, we miss everything.” –Thich Nhat Hanh, Peace is Every Step  Permission doesn’t sound like a very spiritual word, but I’ve come to realize it’s what allows us to say YES. We can give ourselves permission to listen…

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Finding Contemplative Spaces

By Colette Lafia / Comments Off on Finding Contemplative Spaces

It was a typical San Francisco summer day, cool and foggy, so I put on my down-filled vest and headed to the Japanese Tea Garden for a Monday morning walk. I love to walk in gardens. They require me to slow down and savor what’s around me. And the Japanese tea garden…

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Healing in a Relationship: Living Surrender #8

By Colette Lafia / Comments Off on Healing in a Relationship: Living Surrender #8

I recently returned home from visiting my family in Southern California, where I was warm and wearing sleeveless shirts. When my husband picked me up at the San Francisco airport, the cool breeze forced me to grab a jacket, cover myself, and try to warm up. But I couldn’t. Because…

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The Doorway: Life lessons from a Trappist Monk #14

By Colette Lafia / Comments Off on The Doorway: Life lessons from a Trappist Monk #14

I don’t keep focused on God all day long but I do have several methods to bring me back. I have a personal rule never to cross my legs to remind myself that I am always in the presence of the Almighty. And I always say a certain prayer when…

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